10/31/2018 at 11:02am

I believe everything that God brings together it should bring good fruit. But we are humans. And at the end of the day, when it is all said and done….humans make mistakes! We hurt, we cry, we lie to each other. Whether it is intentional or not, we all fall short somewhere. No one is perfect!

So how do we deal with these issues? How do we remain in these relationships and still work through the hurt and pain that we are experience? We all have been there. We all have been to a place to cut people off so quick. To have a short fuse for people. Quick to cut them out, block and delete! Because of fear that they will block our blessings and not allow us to reach our full potential.

But what if the person that hurt you the most is your family? Your spouse? Some people are not easy to get rid of. So what do you?

You find your inner peace and happiness. You find your strength in that situation. And it will allow you to make decisions and plans about your life that you can put into actions whenever you are ready. You may not have it all figured out. But everything will eventually fit together like a puzzle. And who is the key player in bringing that together? GOD! Excuse the language,  If God aint in it, it aint going to work out! It wont happen. All you can do, is do what is in your control and not anyone else’s. 

You cannot concern yourself with what other people think of you. It is not your job to convince anyone who you are. Only Our Father in heaven has the power to turn someone’s heart. Only He knows the depth of each person’s heart.

We would drive ourselves crazy trying to figure people out or to change the way people perceive us. You cannot focus on what you cannot change. You focus on what you can change and what is in your power to do. Anywhere you lack, ask our Father in heaven and trust that the need will be met. You have to stay positive and stay true to yourself and who our Creator called you to be. You must still love them but you must not allow their actions to bring you down.

We have the Spirit of discernment to allow the Holy Spirit to inform us about people. Is it right to deal with them so viciously by cutting them off? What if it can become an opportunity to intercede for them. And the way we intercede is through prayer and fasting. God is patient with us. God is forgiving. In Scripture, it tells us that we are also to treat our neighbor as ourselves.

God has us here to put in work and we must be able to work together. Do not gossip about them. Do not block them out of your life. Do not treat them a certain way. Do not take heart of the flesh. We must fight in the Spirit If its too easy, its wrong. If its hard, its right. Always try to be the best person you can be!